“Not me”
Children with low EQ often exhibit clear signs of avoiding responsibility. If parents are too permissive, the child will become selfish, self-centered, unconcerned about others’ feelings, blame others, and lacks empathy.
Such children often have a first reaction of evading responsibility and will never accept the causes of any situation from themselves.
“I don’t like it”
Some children often say phrases like “I don’t want to” or “I don’t like it.” For example, when parents say to the child, “It’s time to study, please go study,” the child will argue back, “I don’t like it.”
Or when parents ask the child for help with something, the child immediately refuses and says, “I don’t like it.”
Children who frequently speak like this demonstrate low emotional intelligence, and in the future, they will experience many disadvantages when interacting with others.
“Dad/mom can’t do anything right”
If your child says this to you, how would you react? You may feel offended or even angry because your child doesn’t listen to you.
It can be said that the clearest expression of a child with low EQ is a lack of respect for the adults, especially the parents who brought them into this world. If the child believes that speaking disrespectfully is normal, over time the child will develop a self-centered mindset. And if parents don’t guide them in time, their personality will gradually change and become worse over time.
“I want it”
Children with low EQ are often stubborn. They have their own way of behaving and don’t listen to the opinions of others. Whenever there is a disagreement, they always try to satisfy their own desires and cannot manage their emotions.
These children are easily influenced by their emotions. If not guided in time, they are prone to making mistakes in the future.
“I don’t know”
A common mistake that many parents make is doing everything for their children. This stems from the love parents have for their children.
However, this leads to a consequence where when the children need to solve a problem independently, they refuse and say “I don’t know how” or “I can’t do it” even before they actually try. This shows that the child lacks perseverance and responsibility, which are common signs of a child with low EQ.
If parents notice their children facing these issues, instead of indulging and overprotecting them, they should change their way of teaching. Let the child learn to face all the challenges in life independently and courageously. After all, parents cannot be by their children’s side their whole life, so the child needs to grow up and stand firm on their own two feet.
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