According to a survey conducted by several professors at Thanh Hoa University, successful and happy parents who have accomplished children have 3 common characteristics:
They never say, “My child is young, they don’t know anything.”
When children misbehave or exhibit inappropriate behavior in public, many parents tend to defend their children by saying that young kids don’t know any better. That is not the right way of parenting. If you neglect teaching your child manners because you think they will learn as they grow up, you are mistaken. From an early age, parents need to enforce discipline and not spoil or make excuses for their child’s wrongdoing by saying, “What can a young child know?” In fact, if not guided properly from the beginning, children will have a hard time forming the right life perceptions. Waiting until the child is older, until puberty, to start teaching will be extremely difficult due to the already established mindset and habits that are hard to correct.
Therefore, parents should teach their children early on so that they develop proper habits and thinking from the start. As they grow up, these correct habits and behaviors will help them be recognized and evaluated positively by society and bring them many advantages in their work and life.
Parents understand that no one can replace them in raising and educating their children!
Never leave your child to grandparents or depend on other people. The love of parents is irreplaceable. A child who grows up with the love and care of their parents for a long period of time will be prone to feeling insecure, closing their hearts, and even developing autism. Therefore, try your best to raise your own children and avoid venting your anger on them, not bringing the frustrations from work and society to your children. In a warm family, parents often pay attention to nurturing their child’s personality and other aspects of their education. As a result, children are happier and more optimistic. They also learn how to care for and love others.
Parents know that they are role models for their children
Don’t blame schools for education. Improve education within your family. Because parents are the first role models for their children to learn from. Parents are the first teachers of their children. Parents are the mirrors reflecting their children’s lives. Every word and action of parents directly affects their children. Although children have not fully developed their visual and cognitive abilities when they are young, they will learn from their parents’ actions.
Therefore, if parents set a good example, read more books to broaden their knowledge, and pay attention to their demeanor and language, their children will naturally learn these good qualities. Conversely, if parents have a carefree lifestyle, laziness, and careless remarks, it will greatly impact their children’s future.
Parents who serve as role models for their children will prioritize self-improvement for the sake of their children. As a result, their children will learn what is right and always have the right mindset in life.
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