Always possess their belongings
Many mothers are proud that their children are possessive, always clinging to their belongings, never knowing how to share with others. These children separate themselves from others when they come to play, refusing to play with anyone because they do not want to give up their turn. Parents see their children as the center of the universe and believe that this possessiveness is smart. However, as children grow up, they need to learn to cooperate and work in groups. But these skills have been eroded by the praise of parents, thinking that owning things is intelligent.

Take whatever they like
The “take whatever they like” behavior of children is encouraged by many parents, considering it as clever and smart, but in reality it is a bad behavior. For example, when they visit someone else’s house, they see a beautiful toy and quietly put it in their pocket to hide, bringing it home without returning it. Or when they go to the supermarket with an adult, they see something delicious, they hide it in their hand and take it home instead of paying at the counter, or even eat it right at the store.
As soon as you discover that your child has these behaviors, you need to explain to them that it is bad, it can be considered stealing, and they will be punished. If you consider it a childish trick and overlook it, when they grow up, they will have no friends because no one will trust them.

Talkative but lazy
Children like this are very good at understanding their parents and adults. They know what their parents want and always show a listening attitude. On the surface, they are eloquent children, praised by everyone as clever and obedient, but in reality, they “speak but don’t do”.
For example, when a child misbehaves or speaks wrongly, they will apologize to you. They promise to change and not misbehave again, but next time they will repeat the same mistake. Many parents are complacent, thinking that as long as the child admits their mistake, it is good, and the behavior will gradually change, but that is not the case. Long-term habits will make children good at saying nice things, but not taking action, just saying and doing nothing, which is called “empty talk”.
When they grow up, they have a habit of using words to please others instead of showing responsibility through actions. Sooner or later, they will lose trust and respect.
Always try to please others
Failure in life is always trying to please others. A child with that personality trait will be obedient, but not intelligent. They have no independent opinions, and they dare not react… such a child will never succeed in the future. And most of these children usually live in families where parents have violent personalities, yelling and bullying their children.
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