Items to Avoid in the Bedroom
1. Sharp Objects
While some believe that placing sharp objects like knives or scissors on the bed can ward off evil spirits or prevent theft, it is thought in feng shui that these objects may attract negative energy and cause restlessness and insomnia. Thus, it is advisable to keep such items away from the bedroom to maintain a peaceful atmosphere.
2. Buddhist Statues
Placing Buddhist statues in the bedroom, with the hope of peace and blessings, is not recommended. According to feng shui and folk beliefs, these statues are sacred and should be placed in solemn spaces like altars. The bedroom is meant for rest and may not offer the required reverence. Placing the statue at the head of the bed could be seen as disrespectful, potentially leading to bad luck and negatively impacting the homeowner’s career and finances.
3. Mirrors
Mirrors are common household items, but their placement in the bedroom requires careful consideration. In feng shui, it is believed that mirrors facing the bed can cause startles due to reflections and affect the sleep and mental state of the occupant. Improperly placed mirrors can also create disharmony in marital relationships and invite a third party into the relationship. Therefore, it is advisable to avoid placing mirrors directly opposite the bed to maintain harmony in the family and ensure restful sleep.
Items to Place in the Bedroom
1. Rose Quartz Crystal Ball
Rose quartz is known for its strong yang energy, helping to relieve fatigue, reduce stress, and improve neurological and cardiovascular health. Additionally, it promotes love and enhances the harmony and longevity of marital relationships.
2. Harmony Gourd
The harmony gourd is a feng shui item that brings peace, luck, and improved relationships. Typically, it consists of three gourds connected by a red string, with a dharma wheel at the top, symbolizing unity and harmony in relationships. The body of the gourd features Xian Tong and Yu Nu, along with the character “Xi,” conveying blessings for enduring love. The quintet at the end of the string balances yin and yang, bringing harmony to the space.
3. Feng Shui Paintings
In addition to family photos, consider hanging feng shui paintings in the bedroom, such as a pair of carps or mandarin ducks. These symbols represent strong and harmonious relationships, positively influencing the couple’s emotional life. Note: Avoid hanging overly large or heavy paintings above the bed to prevent potential accidents and associated anxiety.