The dining table in a family plays an important role in connecting family members and expressing affection. Therefore, the dining table is closely related to the harmony of the family and symbolizes wealth and fortune. According to feng shui, if the dining table commits these mistakes, it will have a negative impact on relationships within the family, especially the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, husband and wife, financial matters, and wealth. So, please check and make adjustments immediately if your dining table is facing the following issues:
Placing the dining table near the bathroom
The bathroom is a place with negative energy and humidity, so placing the dining table facing or near the bathroom is very bad. It affects both feng shui and the health of the family. Mealtime is a time for us to gather happily, replenish fresh energy, and cleanliness. Therefore, no matter how you look at it, the dining table near the bathroom is extremely unfavorable.
Placing the dining table directly opposite the door
Having the dining table facing the door causes wealth to leak and money to flow out. Therefore, the dining table should not be directly in line with the door. When entering the house, do not see the dining table immediately, but enter inside the house first. Placing the dining table in this position helps the homeowners have privacy and creates a warm and cozy atmosphere, without worrying about drafts while eating and without causing a loss of concentration and energy when the family gathers to eat. In case of space constraints, you can use a partition for the dining area.
Placing the dining table opposite the family altar or directly below it
The altar area is a sacred place and is where the ancestors reside. Therefore, avoid placing it near the secular area where dining and noisy activities take place. If there is a Buddhist altar in the family, it is even more important to avoid this violation.
Placing the dining table facing the cooking area
Many families place the dining table facing the kitchen for convenience. However, the temperature and smoke from the kitchen are not good for the health and well-being of the family members. The high temperature in the kitchen will make everyone in the house uncomfortable, irritable, and easily angry for no reason. Therefore, to maintain harmony among family members, it is necessary to avoid this.
Having a dining table with sharp edges
In feng shui, sharp edges create negative energy that causes conflicts and discord and drains wealth and assets. Therefore, if you choose a dining table with sharp edges, such as a peculiar shape, a square table, or a rectangular table without rounded edges, it is not good in terms of feng shui. Therefore, it is advisable to choose a round dining table or a square or rectangular table but with rounded edges. Nowadays, many furniture companies design rectangular tables with deep rounded corners, which still look beautiful.
A dining table with sharp corners is prone to friction, injuries, accidents, especially for households with young children or people in a hurry. Round tables create a cozy atmosphere but take up more space in the room. Rectangular or square tables create stability but remember to round the corners.
Having an oversized dining table
The dining table should be appropriately sized for the number of family members, avoiding being too large. If you calculate that your family often entertains guests, you should consider having a smaller table to fit the family, or arrange the food and chairs on one side of the table. An oversized dining table creates a cold and unwelcoming feeling in the family.
Having the dining table located below an overhead beam
An overhead beam exerts heavy pressure on the dining table. Therefore, placing the dining table in this position will give a feeling of oppression, fatigue, and unease. When sitting at this position, family members will feel unappetizing and uneasy. This will create unrest and disharmony in the family, leading to setbacks in business, fatigue, and stress.
Choosing an odd number of dining chairs
In the family, everything should be complete, and blessings come in pairs. Therefore, it is essential to avoid choosing an odd number of dining chairs. Instead, choose an even number of chairs for the dining table.
Having the dining table located near a walkway
When placing the dining table, calculate the position carefully to avoid creating a walkway right next to it. The dining area needs a peaceful and stable environment for the family to gather. A walkway will cause disruptions and anxiety for the person sitting next to the walkway, affecting the flow of energy.
When sitting and eating, also pay attention to the taboos of our ancestors, such as avoiding placing the bowl on the table and bending down to eat. Instead, lift the bowl up to eat, avoid placing sharp objects pointing towards the dining table, avoid propping chopsticks on the bowl, and avoid tapping the bowl while eating…
(*) The information in this article is for reference and contemplation purposes!
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