Recently, an online debate erupted once again over a series of photos of a young woman attending her best friend’s wedding, with many mistaking her for the bride. The post included the following: “The woman in the photo asks: What do you think about dressing up for your best friend’s wedding? I dressed like this, and people mistook me for the bride. After realizing I was a guest, they blamed me for dressing better than the bride. I just wanted to look a little more put together, that’s all… I guess from now on, I’ll just wear black to weddings.”
The post sparked a lot of controversy on social media.
As seen in the photos, the woman wore a beige, ruffled dress that fell just below her ankles. Her hair was styled in a high bun with two loose, curly side bangs, giving her an overall elegant look that flattered her figure.
However, many people felt that the woman’s dress was too extravagant and overshadowed the bride. In some photos, the woman is seen holding a bridal bouquet and standing next to the groom, looking very much like the bride herself.
The woman’s dress had a similar color to the wedding gown, and her hair was styled extravagantly, leading many to mistake her for the bride.
Another guest wore a similar style of dress but in a different color with floral patterns, which was praised for its subtlety.
In photos with the bride, the woman, a guest, seemed to overshadow the main character.
The online community was divided over the woman’s choice of attire. Some believed she lacked consideration by dressing so extravagantly at someone else’s wedding, even resembling the typical hairstyle of a bride. Others argued that guests should dress nicely to show respect to the bride and groom, and that the color of her dress was not white like the bride’s.
Some even shifted the blame to the bride, criticizing her plain and dull outfit for allowing the guest to stand out.
Online community criticized the woman for her lack of consideration and for trying to steal the spotlight.
Others blamed the bride for her simple and dull outfit.
In reality, the debate over whether to dress up or down for a wedding has been a long-standing one. Even in the Vietnamese entertainment industry, there have been instances of celebrities dressing inappropriately, either to stand out or to overdress, to the point where it was challenging to distinguish between guests and the main celebrants.
Lâm Khánh Chi wore a dress that resembled a wedding gown in terms of color, pattern, and style, sparking controversy.
Angela Phương Trinh and her sister both wore white dresses, overshadowing the bride.
Minh Tú’s revealing outfit was deemed inappropriate for a wedding.
What should women wear to a wedding?
Weddings are special occasions to celebrate and congratulate loved ones. When invited to a wedding, choosing the right outfit is crucial. However, many women wonder what to wear to look good without upstaging the bride. Here are some dos and don’ts to consider when selecting an outfit for a wedding:
Do’s:
– Follow the dress code: Some weddings don’t specify a color for guests, but if the invitation includes a dress code, make sure to adhere to it to avoid any fashion faux pas.
– Choose weather-appropriate and venue-appropriate attire: Weddings nowadays are not limited to indoor venues but can also be held on beaches, in parks, etc. Research the location and select outfits and shoes accordingly. For outdoor weddings, choose clothing that protects you from the sun and wind.
– Suggested color options for wedding guests:
1. If you’re a young, unmarried woman, pastel colors like pink and light blue are great choices. They complement fair skin tones and won’t clash with the bride’s white dress.
2. For older women, burgundy or royal blue outfits are more suitable.
Pastel-colored dresses in pink or light blue are perfect for attending weddings.
Don’ts:
– Avoid wearing white or colors similar to the bride’s dress: White is typically associated with the bride and exudes elegance and charm. Even if you want to stand out, steer clear of this color.
– Revealing or see-through outfits: Transparent outfits that expose underwear or overly bold cut-outs are inappropriate for weddings, which call for modesty and sophistication.
Revealing, see-through outfits lack the sophistication and modesty expected at weddings.
– All-black attire: While black can make women appear slimmer, it’s best avoided at weddings due to its association with darkness, bad luck, and gloom in both Western and Vietnamese cultures.
– Overly elaborate dresses: Aside from the bride, guests should refrain from wearing overly intricate designs like ball gowns, floor-length dresses, or layered princess-style outfits. Such outfits not only lack aesthetic appeal but also risk stealing the spotlight from the bride.
– Too casual outfits: For the marrying couple, their wedding day is one of the most important and sacred occasions in their lives. Therefore, guests should avoid extremely casual attire like shorts and flip-flops, as these are considered unsophisticated and impolite.
A well-tailored suit is a classy choice for female guests that won’t outshine the bride.
If you’re bored of dresses, opt for a pair of pants, and even if you choose white, you won’t be mistaken for the bride.
A knee-length dress that’s not too revealing is an excellent choice.
