Superstitions surrounding lending items vary across cultures, and here are five items you should be cautious about lending out, as they are believed to carry your luck with them:
1. Knives
In folk tradition, knives are sharp tools that can also serve as weapons. Thus, lending a knife to someone or borrowing one from a household is generally frowned upon. Of course, in modern times, lending a fruit knife or a nail clipper among friends and family is acceptable. However, the key principle is to not lend a knife with the expectation that it will be returned, especially if it’s a valuable or sentimental item.
2. Fire/Lighters
Fire is another item that is considered bad luck to lend. It symbolizes your personal luck and wealth, and sharing it with others is not advisable. This superstition also applies to smokers; instead of lighting a cigarette for someone else, light your own and then offer them your lighter. This way, you’re not directly lending them your fire.
3. Walking Sticks or Vehicles
Walking sticks and vehicles are seen as essential aids for the elderly or injured, providing support and convenience in their daily lives. In folk culture, these items are considered a person’s “right and left arms.” Lending a walking stick or a vehicle can be risky, as returning them may imply bringing illness or dependence to the borrower. Additionally, lending a vehicle can be a precarious situation, so it’s best to avoid it altogether to prevent unnecessary troubles and conflicts.
4. Watches
Watches symbolize the passage of time, and lending your watch implies lending your time and, by extension, your wealth. It can also lead to delays and obstacles in your own work. Furthermore, lending a valuable watch may invite theft or scams, where the borrower replaces it with a fake. Thus, it’s best to avoid lending your watch to avoid any negative consequences.
5. Money
Lending money often leads to financial loss and strained relationships. In superstition, money is linked to luck and fortune, and lending it is akin to lending your good fortune. During your lucky phase, you may encounter people who want to take advantage of your kindness, so be cautious. There’s a saying, “Don’t lend money in the morning or visit the sick on New Year’s Eve.” Thus, lending money during the first month of the lunar year is particularly discouraged.
This is because the first month and day of the month are crucial for enhancing luck and energy. During festive periods, people focus on improving their finances and attracting good fortune, so lending money during these times is believed to bring continuous financial troubles throughout the year, negatively impacting your wealth.
However, if you’re helping someone in a dire situation, don’t overthink it. Such an act is considered ethical and won’t carry the same negative implications. Remember, helping others can sometimes bring good karma and enhance your own luck and finances.
Note: This article is based on superstitions and cultural beliefs and should be taken as entertainment only.
