“Why am I so miserable?”
This phrase clearly expresses blame, not just once but often saying such things. Many people have a habit of complaining whenever they encounter something unpleasant without knowing that their complaints will only make their lives more miserable.
Even if everything initially isn’t that bad, individuals have a negative and pessimistic mentality. They have no expectations for future improvement, and everything will go in a negative direction. Your complaints will appear frequently and make your life go downhill.
When a woman constantly complains about her fate, she has determined that her fate cannot change. She is unhappy with her current life, but she doesn’t want to do anything to change it.
“I can’t do that”
People who open their mouths but haven’t started yet believe that if they can’t do it, they will never be able to achieve their dreams and happiness. Especially, those who give up before even starting will never be successful in anything because they quit before fighting. Therefore, if you want to be happy, you need to seize your opportunities, no matter how small or big they are, and treat them seriously to build a happy future for yourself. Especially in everything, you should take control of your own life instead of being passive, otherwise, life will become more difficult over time.
“I’m afraid that people will criticize me”
Some women always live for the judgments of others. Especially those who always live for the gazes of others and dare not live for their ideals, for what they desire, will certainly be unhappy. These types of women will never be able to live true to their emotions, they are always dominated by social prejudices and always have to strive to meet the criteria imposed by society. Women like this will find it difficult to truly be happy.
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