In folk belief, the relationship between parents and their children is seen as a matter of destiny, with the notion that some children are born to repay their parents’ kindness, while others may bring misfortune. The former, known as “con báo ân,” marks a turning point in their parents’ lives, bringing joy and happiness. These children grow up healthy and strong, becoming a source of blessings, prosperity, and peace for their family.
However, there are also children believed to bring adversity, causing their parents grief and worry. These children are said to drain their parents’ energy and require immense and unconditional love to resolve the complex parent-child dynamics.
Signs Your Child May Be a “Con Báo Ân”
1. Good Eater and Sleeper: A Healthy Child Brings Joy and Wealth to the Family
Eating and sleeping well are fundamental to a child’s development and overall health. A child who eats and sleeps well is not only physically healthy but also brings peace to their parents, requiring less effort in caregiving.
When a child adapts well to the family’s environment and sleeps and eats peacefully, it brings joy and reduces worries. Parents have more time to rest and work, creating a happier home. Conversely, a child who struggles with eating and sleeping can be demanding, leaving parents exhausted and frantically searching for solutions.
2. Robust Health, Less Illness: A Calm and Cheerful Family
Health is paramount. A healthy child means more time for play and less time for hospital visits and medical expenses. Ill health can disrupt parents’ careers and deplete their finances. It can also cause tension and exhaustion within the family.
3. Smiley and Cheerful: Spreading Positivity and Harmony in the Family
A child’s laughter and smile are contagious, spreading positive energy throughout the family. A cheerful child who rarely throws tantrums is a sign of a harmonious family life. On the flip side, constant crying and irritability can stress parents and lead to conflicts.
4. Independent and Self-Disciplined: Foretelling a Successful Future
Children who exhibit self-discipline and independence from an early age are more likely to become self-reliant and motivated individuals with a higher chance of success in adulthood. They are less reliant on their parents and more likely to overcome challenges and adversity without blaming their circumstances or parents.
These children are a source of pride and often bring early success and maturity.
5. Caring and Filial Piety: A Virtuous Cycle of Blessings
Filial piety is a cornerstone of virtue, and a child who exhibits care and respect for their parents from an early age carries the blessings of their past lives. Such children bring honor to their family and maintain their own good fortune. A family with filial children is stable and serene.
Conclusion: Nurturing the Bond with Love and Wisdom
Not all children are born equal, even with the same parents and upbringing. Whether a “con báo ân” or not, parents must strive to love and educate themselves on how to love and raise their children correctly, creating a nurturing environment. Embrace each child with both affection and wisdom, for their presence in your life is more than just coincidence.
Disclaimer: This content is for reflective purposes only.
