Every parent hopes for a healthy and well-behaved child who brings joy to the family. However, not all children are born with positive energy. Some children bring happiness and fulfillment to their parents’ lives, while others can be a source of stress and worry, almost as if they are “here to collect a debt.”
In Eastern spirituality, it is believed that a child’s arrival in a family is the result of a connection from a past life. Some children are believed to be born to repay a debt of gratitude, while others may be seeking to collect on a karmic debt. Regardless of the reason, parents should always love their children unconditionally. If a child is considered a “blessing,” cherish and nurture that sacred bond. If a child seems to be “collecting a debt,” use love and compassion to transform any negative karma into positive energy.
Here are five common signs of children who are believed to bring good fortune and are considered a “blessing” to their parents, bringing them luck, prosperity, and happiness:
1. The child has a healthy appetite and sleeps well, making them easy to care for
One of the clearest signs of a child with positive energy is their regular eating and sleeping habits, making them easy to care for. A child who eats well and sleeps soundly will not only develop physically and intellectually but will also bring peace of mind and relief to their parents.

When a child eats and sleeps well, parents have more time to rest, work, and enjoy life. On the other hand, a child who frequently cries, is fussy about eating, and sleeps restlessly can cause stress and tension for the entire family. Thus, it is believed that a child who eats and sleeps well is the first sign of a blessing—spreading comfort and happiness throughout the household.
2. The child is generally healthy and rarely falls ill
Nothing worries parents more than a child who is frequently sick. A child with robust health and minimal illnesses not only provides peace of mind but also reduces financial and emotional burdens on the family. When a child is healthy, parents can focus on their work and careers, often leading to improved finances and overall well-being.
As the old saying goes, “Health is wealth.” This is true for children as well. Children with strong immune systems tend to be cheerful, active, and adaptable to their surroundings. This is a clear sign of a child who brings positive energy to their parents.
3. The child is cheerful, smiles often, and rarely cries
The laughter of a child is a panacea for tired parents after a long day. A child who smiles frequently, maintains a cheerful disposition, and rarely cries usually has an optimistic spirit, a stable mood, and a keen sense of the love surrounding them.
Such a child contributes to a positive family atmosphere. Conversely, a child who is frequently irritable and cries a lot can negatively affect the mood of the parents and the family dynamic. Therefore, a child with a cheerful disposition and a sociable nature is a precious gift that life bestows upon parents.

4. The child displays self-reliance and helps their parents from an early age
A child who demonstrates self-awareness and self-reliance at a young age is a source of pride for any parent. A self-reliant child not only makes parenting easier but also lays the foundation for the child to become a responsible and confident adult.
If your child starts showing signs of independence early on, such as making their bed, tidying up their toys, feeding themselves, or being attentive to your emotions, these are strong indicators of a grateful child. These children often have strong instincts, are observant, and eager to learn. They are not overly dependent on their parents and strive to become a source of support in the future.
5. The child is affectionate and caring towards their parents
Even at a young age, some children express their filial piety through simple gestures: saving the best food for their mother, offering a back rub when their father is tired, or asking if something is wrong when their parents seem unhappy. These behaviors indicate a child with a rich emotional life, high emotional intelligence, and a strong connection to their family.
Filial piety is not something that needs to wait until a child grows up; it can be expressed through small acts from an early age. A child who shows filial piety from an early age is a great blessing to the family and a testament to the continuation of a positive karmic connection from past lives.
Is your child a blessing or a debt collector?
Regardless of your child’s characteristics, being a parent requires patience, tolerance, and unconditional love. If your child brings joy, health, laughter, and filial piety, consider yourself blessed—they are a “lucky star” that will bring prosperity to your family.
On the other hand, if the journey of parenthood is filled with challenges and exhaustion, view it as an opportunity for self-improvement and a chance to transform old karmic ties. Love has the power to transform everything.
Do you see these signs in your child? If so, cherish and nurture them every day to prolong this good fortune!
The information in this article is based on folk beliefs and is for reference only.