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Having etiquette and manners during a gathering can ensure a successful experience for all. Knowing how to use a lemon squeezer or where to drape a napkin can help establish an atmosphere of courtesy and hospitality.

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30 August, 2023

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Queen Elizabeth is known for always carrying her handbag with her left hand because she wants to keep her right hand free for shaking hands. She only changes position when she wants to signal to her staff that she wants to end the conversation.

Below are some rules and similar behaviors that can make you more polite in meetings and social gatherings.

1. Use a hand or spoon to cover when squeezing lemon. Lemon juice can cause pain if it gets in someone’s eyes. Therefore, it is polite to use one hand or a spoon to shield the lemon when squeezing.

2. Place the napkin on your lap in a rectangle shape, rather than a triangle. Folding the napkin into a rectangle is considered more appropriate as it is large in size. After finishing the meal, leave the napkin on the left side of the plate instead of folding it back.

3. Avoid lifting your pinkie finger while drinking tea. Contrary to popular belief, it is more proper to use your index finger and middle finger to hold the tea cup and bring it to your mouth.

4. When sneezing or coughing, use your left hand to cover your mouth and nose instead of your right hand. This is because you may later need to use your right hand for handshakes or greetings.

5. Wait for the host to sit down before starting to eat as a sign of respect towards them.

6. If you invite friends or colleagues to lunch, it is polite to proactively pay for the meal.

7. When the breadbasket is passed around during a restaurant meal, it is polite to offer a slice of bread first to the person on your right, then to the person on your left, before choosing a slice for yourself.