## Change Yourself Before Changing Others
As young adults, we often dream of changing the world. When we’re unhappy, we think of changing our surroundings. And when we feel threatened, we wish to change others’ minds.
But as we mature, we realize the only thing we can truly change is ourselves. It’s like hatching a chicken egg – life is like an egg, and breaking it from the outside destroys it, but breaking it from within creates new life.
When you break through the barriers you’ve set for yourself, your life will begin to transform.
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Consider the ancient fable about the origin of leather shoes. Once upon a time, a king traveled through treacherous roads, his feet aching and sore. Upon returning to his palace, he ordered his servants to cover all the roads with cowhide. He believed this would benefit not only himself but also his people.
Countless cattle were slaughtered, and the nation’s treasury suffered. However, a servant suggested, “Why not cover your feet with two pieces of cowhide, Your Majesty?” The king was surprised but intrigued. And thus, he crafted a pair of leather shoes to his liking.
Changing the world and others can be challenging. Instead, focus on changing yourself, as it is relatively easier. If you want to see the world change, start with yourself first.
Trying to Change Others is Futile
Every day, we hear complaints like, “Why won’t you change?” and “How can I stop them from doing this?” These questions are prevalent in friendships, among colleagues, and within families.
On the website Aboluowang, a woman shared her exhaustion from trying to change her spouse over the years. She had hoped he would become more independent and self-reliant after marriage, but as time passed, he remained the same, while she grew more tired. Experts advised that she had deluded herself into thinking she could bend him to her will and that it was time to change her own mindset.
In reality, expecting too much from others is a source of suffering. Attempting to change someone else may result in wasted time and energy.
Humans are emotional beings, and relying solely on logic to demand change can be difficult. In life, when we ask others to change, we must also reflect on what they ask of us.
(Source: Aboluowang)
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