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The old saying goes, “Boys born on the first day of the lunar month, girls born on the full moon day.” What does it mean for children born on this day? Is it considered lucky or unlucky?

If a girl is born on the first day, is it difficult to raise a boy on the full moon day?

14 December, 2023

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Is it good or bad to be born on the first day of the lunar month?

This saying implies that children born on these two days of the month are difficult to raise, difficult to teach, stubborn, have ups and downs in character, destiny, and life. In terms of the Five Elements, children born on the first day of the lunar month, especially in the morning, in the month of prosperous destiny (for example, if the person’s destiny is Fire, with prosperous Fire in the months of April, May, and June), the Heavenly Stems and Earthly Branches of the day and hour of birth are all prosperous, which is good for their destiny but not beneficial for social balance.

The first day of the month is the beginning of the month, when the yang energy is at its peak (referring to the Sun’s strongest illumination), and boys are naturally yang, so those born on this day have a very yang personality. On the other hand, the full moon day (the 15th day of the lunar month) has the peak yin energy (because the Moon is at its fullest), and girls are yin, so those born on this day have a very yin personality. In terms of feng shui, maintaining a balance between yin and yang is always a prerequisite for good luck. Therefore, whether it is yin or yang, being at a peak level is abnormal and not ideal.

Therefore, children born on these two days will have more special biological changes than others, creating strong and difficult-to-teach personalities, leading to many ups and downs and difficulties in life.

“Girls born on the first day, boys born on the full moon”, is that right? Are girls born on the first day and boys born on the full moon difficult to raise?

According to folk beliefs, the moon represents yin energy, similar to the yin traits of women. The sun represents yang energy, similar to men.

The full moon day has the brightest and most prosperous yin energy. Women born on this day will have the highest convergence of these characteristics. Conversely, the first day of the month has the dimmest moonlight, and the yang energy will be the most prosperous. Boys born on that night will have a strong personality.

Therefore, it is not only boys born on the first day and girls born on the full moon that are difficult to raise and teach, but all children born on these two days have very different and unique personalities, with positive or negative traits, rather than completely leaning towards one side.

Girls born on the first day: If girls are born on the first day of the month, and if they are born in a prosperous month, day, and hour, they will have a strong and stubborn personality. The destiny of such people is not smooth, and their family is not perfect either.

Boys born on the full moon day also have less luck. If they are born at midnight, they are slightly better off, with a better balance of destiny. People born on this day have a weak and indecisive temperament and are passive. The full moon day is the time when the moon is at its fullest, with extremely prosperous yin energy, but men are yang energy, and there is a struggle between yin and yang energy, so their luck is likely to decline.

Nowadays, people do not associate the difficulty of raising and teaching children with the first day or full moon day. Nowadays, people consider auspicious hours and auspicious days for giving birth or having a caesarean section. But ultimately, whether in the past or present, all parents only wish for their children to be healthy.

Boys born on the first day, girls born on the full moon from a scientific perspective

Until now, people have always thought that boys born on the first day of the lunar month and girls born on the full moon day are “difficult to raise,” with different personalities. But in reality, this is not entirely true. It also depends a lot on the nurturing environment in the family and school for these children.

According to some experts, we should not equate the difficulty of raising boys born on the first day and girls born on the full moon. This saying only applies to children born at night.

According to Eastern culture, the first day of the month marks the beginning of a new cycle, and the 15th day when the moon is brightest marks the next cycle when the moon gradually fades away. It is the moment when vampires appear, with a mysterious color and many stories associated with suspicion for people.

Besides, the attraction of the moon according to the lunar calendar, and the sun according to the solar calendar. The attraction of the Moon causes the tides to change, and at the same time, it creates a “biological tide” state in the human body, causing the fluids in the body to change.

This is the cause of the nervous stimulation, crisis, disorders, and imbalance, affecting the nerves of those born on these days… At the same time, those who are born on these two nights will have more special biological changes than those born on other nights.

A more logical way of thinking is that Asians, especially Vietnamese people, have the custom of worshipping ancestors, going to pagodas on the first day and full moon day. We consider these days to be the days of the spirits. That is why children born on these days are pampered by their parents and emphasized their birth dates wherever they go.

The child feels that they are more important than those born on other days. Because their ego is pampered, their psychological state becomes more arrogant, seeing themselves as the center, wanting people to value them more than anything. Gradually, this affects their personality, making them tend to be stubborn and less obedient.