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Ancestral advice causes family conflicts between daughter-in-law and mother-in-law, leading to three generations of hardship without wealth.

The relationship between mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law in a family is highly sensitive, and according to ancient beliefs, the feng shui in the house also greatly affects this relationship.

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16 December, 2023

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In family life from ancient times to the present, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been a sensitive relationship. The mother is the dominant figure in the family, and the daughter-in-law gives birth to the future generation of the family. The mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship has always had difficult conflicts to reconcile. However, this relationship also creates a peaceful atmosphere in the family.

Nowadays, the perception of the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has changed, and they no longer have the same feudal mentality as in the past. However, it is still a sensitive relationship. Just pay attention to the families where the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law do not get along well, where they do not communicate, speak ill of each other, or have tension. These families gradually weaken and become exhausted for all three generations.

Confrontation between the mother-in-law’s room and the daughter-in-law’s room

This tension and conflict can be caused by many reasons, but the elders say that the mother-in-law’s room should never face the daughter-in-law’s room. This is a major feng shui mistake in the family.

According to feng shui, if the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law’s rooms face each other, it will create more conflict and tension in an already sensitive relationship. The positioning of the two women facing each other shows resistance and disharmony. When the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law do not get along, everything in the family becomes even more troubled. The son, the pillar of the family, is caught in the middle between his mother and wife, suffering from the conflict and unable to focus on his work. The children born into this environment experience a major conflict between their grandmother and mother. They hear them criticize and speak ill of each other, and they can even be pulled into the grandmother’s or mother’s side. The conflicting relationship between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can also affect the education of the children. That’s why it is said that when the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are not in harmony, all three generations are harmed. As a result, the family’s fortune declines, wealth dissipates, and without focused work, assets do not grow stronger.

Aside from feng shui, having the daughter-in-law’s room facing the mother-in-law’s room can lead to more scrutiny. The mother-in-law can easily observe the daughter-in-law’s room and enter and exit through the door, making the daughter-in-law feel uncomfortable, and the mother-in-law wants to pry and inspect the room even more. This increases the conflict between them.

How to resolve the conflict?

If in the family, the mother-in-law’s room and the daughter-in-law’s room directly face each other due to the previous design, the conflict can be resolved by adding a room divider in the daughter-in-law’s room and hanging a five-element coin string at the door of the mother-in-law’s room.

If it is possible to rearrange the rooms, it is best for the mother-in-law’s room and the daughter-in-law’s room to be diagonal or on different floors. When two women with conflicting relationships are in different positions, it reduces the negative energy.

In addition to the confrontation between the mother-in-law’s and daughter-in-law’s rooms, there are several other feng shui factors within the house that can escalate the conflict between them:

Southwest corner of the house being wet or with windows

The southwest corner of the house represents the mother-in-law. If this area is wet or has windows, it will make it difficult for the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to get along. At this time, the son is in a difficult position.

To resolve this issue, place a glass ball in the area with water and close the windows, or place a miniature landscape in front of the window.

Southwest corner with the foot of the bed

If the bed is in this position, it indicates that the mother-in-law is being oppressed, causing conflict in the relationship between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, making both sides uncomfortable.

In this case, add a soft cushion under the foot of the bed or move the bed to a different position.

Southwest corner with a bathroom or messy room

If there is a bathroom or a messy room in this area, it disrupts the energy flow in the house, leading to conflict between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law and constant arguments in the family. In this case, move the bathroom or tidy up the room. If it cannot be moved, place a plant in the bathroom, open the ventilation to eliminate odors, and keep it clean.

Sharp-edged furniture and objects in the house

When there are many sharp-edged objects pointing outward in the house, it adds more negative energy and makes the relationship between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law tense. Therefore, knives should not be displayed openly and should be placed in a drawer. Furniture with sharp corners should be rounded, chairs should have rounded corners to avoid sharp angles, and dining tableware should be round, avoiding square or sharp items.

Sofa in the house not leaning against the wall

A sofa that is not leaning against the wall shows a lack of solid support, which also creates negative energy. Therefore, place the sofa against the wall so that the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can rely on each other more harmoniously.

In addition, you can also plant feng shui plants in the house to soothe the atmosphere, reduce negative energy, and bring more happiness and luck. Furthermore, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law also need to adjust their attitudes, look at the family and put aside their personal ego. The conflicting relationship between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law not only harms the two individuals but also affects all three generations. Therefore, it would be better if the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law realize this and compromise and understand each other more.

This information is for reference and experience.