Honeymoon bed
Marriage is classified as one of the Four Great Blessings of human life. In the eyes of the ancients, marriage was also extremely important, it was the significant event of a person’s lifetime.
Because marriage is so important, naturally everything in the marriage also needs attention. Getting married is associated with the word “new,” such as “new bride, new groom,” “newlyweds” … Therefore, the ancients believed that the belongings of newlyweds should be new, especially the bed. Because people spend the most time sleeping.
Therefore, the first thing is not to borrow a honeymoon bed, not to lend it to others, and not to borrow from others. If not, it goes against tradition and is not auspicious enough.
Pillow
Pillows are rarely gifted to others, so please be careful. Because a pillow is an essential item for everyone at night, symbolizing “peaceful sleep, peace of mind.” If you casually buy a pillow as a gift for someone else, then you will have fewer days of “peaceful sleep” in the future.
Pillows can only be shared between husband and wife because there are no barriers between them, they live together and share burdens with each other.
Wallet
The wallet is the gift that women choose the most to give to their husbands and boyfriends, alongside watches, belts, … because they are the most practical and reasonable items.
But it’s best not to give your wallet to others to use, because this action is similar to giving your “fortune” to others. The ancients also considered the wallet as a place that contains the luck of oneself, so this action reduces the ability to make and keep money for the owner.
Best of all, you should be careful when giving a wallet to avoid affecting the financial situation unless the husband and wife have the same goals, both two but one. Then giving him a wallet or implying giving a “money vault” is not a problem.
Incence burner
The incense box symbolizes passing on the torch from one generation to another. From ancient times, there has been a long-standing ritual culture, including ancestor worship, such as the saying “hundred good filial piety begins with ancestors.” Ancestor worship not only strengthens family unity but also shows the spirit of not forgetting the roots of human beings. Drinking water doesn’t forget the source, in the eyes of the ancients, that is also a kind of filial piety.
The ”incense” here means ”incense” used for ancestor worship, which is a type of utensil used for worship, in addition to being used to symbolize the succession of generations because ”incense” has such important significance, naturally, you cannot borrow it casually, otherwise it will be considered unlucky.
Medicine pot
In the old days, people used traditional medicine to treat illnesses, many types of traditional medicine need to be boiled before they can be consumed. It is also because of this that the medicine pot was once an indispensable tool in people’s lives. Therefore, why is there a saying “medicine pot should not be borrowed,” the main reasons are:
First of all, in daily life, the ancients desire good luck, and try to avoid as many bad things as possible, borrowing a medicine pot is considered unlucky.
Furthermore, medicine is toxic, borrowing a medicine pot, the other person may boil medicine that is unclear, if there is any residue, it will affect the life of the person.
Finally, antique medicine pots are relatively valuable tools, except for fear that the other party will borrow it and not return it, most of the medicine pots are made of pottery, very easy to break when borrowed.
There are countless beliefs, customs that have been derived from generations of experience, the issue of borrowing and lending for the ancients is extremely careful, not casually borrowing or lending, because it may affect the lives of the ancients.
The ancients often used short, easy-to-understand, and comprehensive phrases that stemmed from life experiences to remind future generations of how to treat others.
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