A few days ago, Lo Lem, the daughter of MC Quyen Linh, surprised everyone by sharing a photo of her hanging out with her close friends. Interestingly, the sons of famous director Phước Sang and his ex-wife, actress Kim Thư, were also present.
After declaring bankruptcy due to a 1000-billion-dong debt in the real estate business, Phước Sang’s family fell apart, and his two sons left the 70-billion-dong villa in Saigon with their mother. For ten years, Kim Thư, a single mother, rarely shared photos of her and her two sons on social media as she worked hard to provide for her family.
It hasn’t been easy for Kim Thư to raise two such well-mannered and brilliant sons. For a decade, she has worked multiple jobs to support her children financially.
“When I had no money, I sold sticky rice and boiled chicken, doing everything myself. Sometimes, I would strip leaves, cutting my hands and bleeding. I would work from 3 am to 6 pm, even forgetting to eat. I felt overwhelmed and asked myself why life had changed so drastically. From being a princess who never had to iron her clothes and was taken care of by her family, I fell into a life of hardship and despair.” – Kim Thư shared.
Kim Thư and her sons after leaving the 70-billion-dong villa.
It’s been a while since Đô La and Ơ Rô have been in the spotlight, and this time, they appeared together with their childhood friends, including Lo Lem and Hat De, Quyen Linh’s daughters, and the daughter of NSND Hong Van.
The childhood friends reunite.
At the age of adolescence, Kim Thư’s sons have an impressive height.
Both sons of Kim Thư and Phước Sang are going through puberty, and their physical transformation is remarkable. The older son, Đô La, who is 17 years old, stands at an impressive 1.9 meters tall, while the younger son, Ơ Rô, is almost 1.8 meters tall. The two brothers have good looks and resemble both their director father and actress mother.
Kim Thư is proud of her sons, and she shared that the older son has a striking appearance and could pursue a career in the arts if he wanted to. However, he is more passionate about sports, especially football. On the other hand, the younger son dreams of becoming an actor and has shown early talent and a passion for acting.
At the age of U50, Kim Thư has successfully raised two accomplished and tall sons after her marriage ended. She is a single mother admired by many women for her strength and resilience in overcoming challenges and providing a loving and stable environment for her children.
It hasn’t been easy for Kim Thư to raise her children in such difficult circumstances. She has faced financial and psychological pressures but has turned these challenges into motivation. She has sought opportunities to develop herself and provide the best for her children. Her determination is evident in how she cares for and educates her children and maintains a positive and loving environment.
As mentioned, being a single parent is never easy. Therefore, when deciding to become one, it’s essential to prepare financially, emotionally, and health-wise to provide the best environment for your child’s growth and well-being.
Financial stability and a steady job
If you’re not financially prepared, becoming a single parent can be challenging. You need to provide a basic living environment for your child.
If you’re planning to get a divorce and are pregnant, ensure you have enough money to cover childbirth expenses and living costs until you can find a job. If you’re single and want to have a child without marrying, financial preparation is even more critical.
A positive mindset to nurture your child effectively
If your marital life isn’t going as planned and you decide to get a divorce, inform your family, relatives, and friends about your decision. However, be mentally prepared to avoid shocking them or facing resistance.
Additionally, gain as much knowledge as possible about parenting, as you’ll be doing it mostly alone until your child starts school. Focus on building their character and providing the best care within your means. Show everyone that even without a husband or father, your life with your child can still be joyful and fulfilling.
Good health to overcome challenges
Taking care of your health is crucial for single mothers. If you’re not in good health, who will take care of your child, manage the household, or handle any debts? In summary, it will be challenging to become a single mother if you don’t have good health.