1. A Peaceful Mother
The emotional stability of a mother contributes to the harmony of the family. A emotionally stable mother is the best feng shui for a family.
Studies have shown that the negative mood of a father has less impact on the children. However, if a mother is not in a good mood, the child’s behavior is more likely to cause problems. With emotional peace, a mother can embrace her child with gentle love, whispering words of encouragement after a fall.
Throughout the development process, children observe and imitate every action, gesture, and word of their parents. They will learn how you maintain calmness and handle difficult situations. Therefore, don’t hesitate to express your emotions and your own problem-solving methods in front of your child.
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When teaching your child, remain calm so that they can learn how to control themselves when they make mistakes. Conversely, if you are frequently hot-tempered, scolding and beating your child, they will tend to rebel and not listen. Children are also prone to conflict with others, especially their peers.
2. A Mother Who Lets Her Child Try and Make Mistakes
We all go through a stage in childhood where we make mistakes. Within the boundaries parents can control, children need suitable opportunities to experiment and make mistakes. When they make mistakes, they need proper guidance to grow and learn from their mistakes.
What if a mother tells her child that it’s okay to make a mistake, but they must learn a lesson from it so they won’t make the same mistake again? By doing this, the child will not be afraid of making mistakes but rather correct their behavior, stay calm when facing difficulties, and reflect on their experiences.
3. A Mother Who Understands the Art of Language
Moms who possess good communication skills are truly beloved because they can easily handle any situation and maintain a positive atmosphere. Whether it’s daily communication or criticism after making a mistake, a mother who understands the art of language will never belittle or command her child with a commanding tone.
A mother uses her words like a gentle breeze that calms her child. Her words do not lecture, but rather inspire the child to think about their mistakes, making them more willing to listen.
Voltaire once said, “The ear is the road to the soul.” At that time, the “fragrance of words” will make communication flow smoothly and make the world a better place. Being an excellent mother is not difficult, we just need to manage our emotions well and be able to communicate and interact happily with our children.