The children who come into our lives spiritually do so with a predetermined connection to us. In the cycle of rebirth, they may be those who have received our kindness and are now our children to repay that debt, or they may be children who have come to collect on a debt we owe them. Children who exhibit the following traits are believed to be here to repay their parents’ kindness:
Children who are born with a good appetite and sleep well
These infants make parenting easier by eating and sleeping well. They are well-behaved and innocent, causing no trouble or hardship for their parents as they grow up. Caring for a child is no easy task, and many parents struggle with their own sleep deprivation due to their children’s difficult eating and sleeping patterns.
Eating and sleeping are crucial for a child’s development, and infants who eat and sleep well tend to have a robust constitution and thrive. This makes parenting easier and brings joy to the family, as there is no greater pleasure than seeing your child grow up healthy and happy each day.
Children with good health and few illnesses
“A healthy child brings joy to the parents” is a common wish for all parents. A sick child not only causes worry and exhaustion but can also affect the harmony within the family. Sometimes, a child’s illness can lead to distance, arguments, and blame among parents, grandparents, and other family members.
Illness in children consumes not only time and energy but also finances, hindering parents’ career advancement or even leading to job loss as they take time off to care for their sick child in the hospital.
Thus, having a healthy child is an immense blessing.
Children who are cheerful and cry little
Children who cry little tend to be well-behaved and obedient. Their smiles bring joy to their parents. These happy children are content and rarely throw tantrums or cause trouble, and their happiness is a blessing for their parents.
Children who are independent and can care for themselves at an early age
Some children are born understanding, needing only to be told something once to comprehend and take care of themselves and even their parents. These children are a source of pride for their parents and a comfort, as they don’t have to worry when their children are away from home. Teaching children independence helps them grow and develop into strong individuals.
Children who are filial and loving towards their parents
Filial children who think of and love their parents are a source of immense happiness. While parents should set an example, some children are inherently loving and filial.
The way parents raise their children greatly influences their character. However, even good parents can sometimes produce unruly children. Thus, it is essential for parents to learn effective parenting skills to guide their children towards becoming well-behaved individuals. If your child exhibits the traits mentioned above, congratulations! You have every reason to be proud, and in folk belief, these children have come into your life to repay the kindness you showed them in a previous life.
Reference: Spiritual contemplation