Red Flag Relationships
The true story of Xiao Li, 33 years old: She had been happily married for 5 years. However, 2 months ago, she started experiencing mild abdominal pain and unusual vaginal bleeding. Due to her assumption that it was a common disorder, she delayed seeking medical attention, not to mention the frequent intimacy with her husband made her hesitant.
Eventually, the pain became unbearable, and she had to go to the hospital. When Xiao Li regained consciousness, the first thing the doctor told her was that she should go to a central hospital for cancer screening as soon as possible.
After a series of tests, she was diagnosed with cervical cancer in stage 3. What was even more shocking was that the investigation of her medical history indicated that her husband was closely related to the cause of her illness. To be more precise, it was due to the couple’s unhealthy sexual habits.
It turned out that Xiao Li’s husband had a high libido and would demand intimacy even during her menstrual periods. To please her husband, Xiao Li did not refuse, and for over a decade, intimate relations during her periods became a regular occurrence.
However, Xiao Li’s doctor warned that having intercourse during menstruation is extremely dangerous for a woman’s health. This is because, during menstruation, the endometrium is very sensitive and easily damaged. If intercourse, especially vigorous intercourse, occurs, it can cause tearing, bleeding, or inflammation of the cervix. If this situation recurs frequently and is not treated decisively, it will eventually lead to cervical cancer.
Not to mention, at this time, the cervix is widened, and the vaginal environment is always moist. The hormonal changes will create favorable conditions for bacteria and viruses to easily invade. Common infections include yeast infections and HPV, which are all high-risk factors for cervical and uterine diseases, especially cervical cancer.
In conclusion, intimacy during menstruation is harmful, and if any couples are currently practicing this, they should stop immediately before it’s too late.
Tobacco Smoking
Many husbands have the habit of smoking cigarettes, some even heavily. They may continue smoking even in close proximity to their wives, which also causes significant harm through secondhand smoke.
Women who smoke have twice the risk of developing cervical cancer compared to non-smokers. Components of tobacco smoke have been found in the cervical mucus of smoking women. Researchers believe that these substances damage the DNA of cervical cells and may contribute to the development of cervical cancer. Smoking also weakens the immune system’s ability to fight off HPV infections.
Not Using Condoms
Many people find condoms uncomfortable and choose not to use them, but this habit is extremely dangerous. If a man is carrying the HPV virus, there is a high probability that he will infect his partner. Condoms are not just a contraceptive method but also an important defense against sexually transmitted infections.
Warning Signs of Cervical Cancer
– Abnormal vaginal bleeding: This can include bleeding after sexual intercourse, bleeding after menopause, spotting between periods, prolonged or heavy periods, or bleeding after douching.
– Unusual vaginal discharge: The discharge may contain a small amount of blood and can occur between periods or after menopause.
– Yellow vaginal discharge with a foul odor or discharge with bloody mucus.
– Abdominal pain, frequent urination, and discomfort during urination.
– Pain during sexual intercourse.
– Pelvic pain.
As the disease progresses, more severe symptoms may include:
– Swollen legs.
– Urinary and bowel problems. Blood in urine or stool when cancer invades the bladder or rectum.
– Unexplained fatigue and weight loss
