The Secret to Seducing a Vietnamese Beauty: Unveiling a Man’s Past at a Bar

At first sight, Phan Nhu Thao was smitten with Duc An for a special reason.

This was also one of the reasons why the beautiful former model, Phan Nhu Thao, decided to become a mother and have a child with Duc An, a man with four ex-wives, upon their first encounter.

The infamous tycoon, Duc An, once shared with the press that he first met his wife in a bar but didn’t think much of it as Phan Nhu Thao was dressed more simply than the other women there. Conversely, Phan Nhu Thao admitted that she wanted to marry Duc An from the start, even though she had no idea who he was or what his life was like.

“The first time I met my husband, I knew he was wealthy because we met at a five-star hotel, but I had no clue who he was.” – she confessed.

After dating for a month, Phan Nhu Thao learned that her partner was the infamous Duc An, often mentioned in the press. He was on his fourth marriage, 26 years her senior, and already had two children. Nonetheless, these barriers of age and broken marriages were overshadowed by the notion of “a very good father.”

“Hearing him talk about morality and how to live an upright life, I knew he was a good father who would raise a child to be a good person. I realized he would be a good father to my future children.” – the former model shared.

Phan Nhu Thao’s judgments proved her right, as after five years of marriage to Duc An, all the love and romance he showed her remained intact from the beginning. This is especially true regarding his attention, education, and love for their only daughter, Bo Cau.

It is known that after marrying Phan Nhu Thao, Duc An retired and became a solid support for his wife, taking meticulous care of their child so that she could focus on her career. “There should only be one breadwinner in a family. If both spouses focus on their careers, conflicts will surely arise.

In my family, my husband has already retired, so he doesn’t need to be out there anymore (laughs). Now, he has a lot of free time to enjoy leisure activities, play with our child, and hang out with friends. So, I’m the sole breadwinner, and that’s enough.”

She feels happy to have her husband waiting for her when she comes home tired from work. All she needs to do is say she’s hungry, and he will prepare a delicious meal for her. He also takes care of their daughter from A to Z, including meals and education.

Duc An takes care of their daughter, Bo Cau, by himself.

He even cooks for his family himself, despite being able to afford household help or a private chef.

A good father plays an extremely important role in raising and developing a child’s psychology. They are not just providers but also role models, mentors, and motivators. Here are some aspects that highlight the importance of a father’s role in a child’s life.

1. Role Model

Fathers are often the first role models their children encounter in life. Their behavior, values, and conduct significantly influence how children develop their personalities and perceptions. A good father will exhibit qualities like patience, responsibility, and respect, thereby encouraging their children to develop similar values.

2. Emotional Support

A father’s presence in a child’s life provides a sense of security and stability. He is someone who can listen, share, and support his children during difficult times. A father’s love and attention help children feel loved and boost their self-confidence.

3. Educational Guidance

Fathers can play a crucial role in their children’s education, from helping with homework to providing career guidance. They can share valuable experiences, knowledge, and life skills, enabling their children to develop independent thinking and problem-solving abilities.

4. Social Development Encouragement

Fathers influence not just the family but also the community. A good father often encourages his children to engage in social, sports, and cultural activities. This not only helps children build communication skills but also provides opportunities to learn and develop relationships with peers.

5. Sex Education and Relationship Guidance

Fathers are also responsible for educating their children about sex, love, and relationships. Through open and honest conversations, fathers can help their children understand themselves, others, and what constitutes healthy relationships. This is essential for children to build positive relationships in the future.

6. Establishing Habits and Discipline

Fathers are responsible for setting rules and principles within the family. Their consistency and fairness in parenting help children understand responsibility and the consequences of their actions. A good father can help children develop good habits and self-management skills.