The recent drama between streamer ViruSs (Đặng Tiến Hoàng) and hot TikToker Ngọc Kem (Trần Nguyễn Hồng Ngọc) has captured public attention. After nearly a year of dating, instead of ending amicably, the two publicly criticized each other on social media, sparking a wave of controversy. It all started with Ngọc Kem’s livestream, which garnered nearly 200,000 views, where she accused ViruSs of cheating and claimed to have evidence to support her allegations. She revealed that during their relationship, ViruSs brought other women home, and despite her forgiveness, she could no longer tolerate his actions. Ngọc Kem also warned that if ViruSs continued to deny her claims, she would expose all the evidence of his infidelity.
ViruSs quickly responded with a 13-minute video on his personal channel, expressing his disappointment in Ngọc Kem’s behavior and denying her accusations. He asserted that during their relationship, he was wholeheartedly committed and even publicly acknowledged their relationship on social media. ViruSs also mentioned that he once valued their bond.
The incident has sparked mixed reactions from the public. Amid the intense drama, rapper Pháo and Emma Nhất Khanh chose to express themselves through rap instead of livestreaming. Their song, “Sự nghiệp chướng,” became an instant hit, reaching 3 million views within 20 hours. The public applauded their response, as it exposed the “tra nam” (a term used to describe a man who cheats or mistreats women) and brought him to light.
The question arises: Are these public displays of conflict a quest for justice, an emotional outburst, or simply “content” for entertainment?
Some individuals choose to expose the truth when they feel wronged, seeking empathy from the public. However, there are also cases where such actions are impulsive reactions fueled by anger or a desire to create drama. As outsiders, we can never truly know the intentions and motivations of those involved.
Many have sided with Ngọc Kem, believing that her livestream was a way to unveil the truth. They argue that when hurt, women have the right to speak up and protect themselves, while also warning others. However, the uncontrollable nature of public opinion can turn the tide, and the initiator of such revelations may unintentionally become a victim of its backlash.
There are also skeptics who question the timing of these allegations. Since the couple has already parted ways, continuing to expose each other on social media may be seen as leveraging the drama to gain attention. It is undeniable that such relationship dramas attract massive viewership, bringing increased publicity to those involved.
However, it is essential to recognize that breakups are always painful, and turning them into public trials only exacerbates the hurt. Once the anger subsides, the words spoken in the heat of the moment cannot be taken back, and the individuals involved may regret pushing the situation too far. Publicly airing personal conflicts not only damages the image of those concerned but also contributes to a negative online environment.
There are instances when bringing issues to light is necessary, such as when there is a violation of the law, abuse, or fraud. However, in the case of personal relationship conflicts, keeping matters private may be a wiser choice. Once something is posted online, it can spread uncontrollably, and the revealer of the “hidden needle” may become the target of public criticism.
Mature individuals do not need to prove their innocence or guilt on social media. When love is lost, the best course of action is to respect each other and part ways peacefully. Sometimes, silence is not an indication of concealment but a choice to avoid unnecessary harm. Knowing when to speak up and when to walk away gracefully is crucial. Resolving conflicts civilly, respecting each other, and refraining from airing personal issues on social media, regardless of the circumstances, is always the right move.
A civilized breakup allows both parties to move on without being haunted by the past. When a relationship ends amid chaos, it prolongs the suffering and casts a shadow on future relationships. Negative content circulating on social media can leave deep scars, hindering individuals from finding new happiness.
And if it’s “just content,” then the harm outweighs the benefits!
