According to feng shui, there are some items that should not be given as gifts, no matter how close you are to the recipient. Because according to feng shui, certain items are considered as personal talismans, and giving them as gifts can affect your own luck. There are some seemingly ordinary items that have negative energy according to feng shui, and giving them as gifts can affect relationships.
Thorny and poisonous plants
Giving plants as gifts is a unique and long-lasting gesture with the symbolism of growth and vitality. However, ancient people believed that it was best to avoid giving plants with thorns or poisonous properties. This is because thorny or poisonous plants emit negative energy according to feng shui, which can have a negative impact on the luck and relationships of both parties.
Therefore, it is best to avoid giving plants with thorns, such as cacti or plants with poisonous substances such as lucky bamboo or oleander.
When giving plants, it is also important to consider the zodiac sign of the recipient and choose a plant that matches their zodiac sign to enhance the intended meaning of the gift.
Mirror
Mirrors are personal objects that serve as a bridge between the positive and negative energies, as they absorb both good and bad energies. Giving someone a mirror as a gift can create suspicion in the relationship. Therefore, according to ancient beliefs, it is best not to give mirrors as gifts.
Clock
A clock represents the concept of time and can also be a decorative item for the home, such as a wall clock or a desk clock. It can also be a fashion accessory if it is a wristwatch.
A clock is also a feng shui object that represents development and the path of luck for the homeowner. Therefore, giving a clock as a gift means giving away your own time and luck.
In Chinese pronunciations, the word for clock (钟) is similar to the word for “accompany until the end” (终), which has the meaning of farewell. Therefore, giving a clock can be misunderstood as a hint for the recipient to quickly die, which can have a negative impact on the relationship and create distrust. Especially during celebrations of long life, it is even more important to avoid giving clocks, as it can bring bad luck and possibly lead to an early death.
Scissors
According to feng shui, scissors are considered a dangerous object that carries negative energy and can harm relationships, leading to more heated arguments. Therefore, it is best not to give scissors to each other, as it can potentially sever the relationship or create more suspicion and cracks. Scissors can also serve as a weapon or cause accidents, so giving scissors as a gift can inadvertently cause more trouble for the recipient. Scissors are extremely sharp and dangerous objects, and having them around can invite negative energy and harm.
Umbrella
An umbrella is meant to provide protection and shelter, but it is not advisable to give it as a gift. This is because the word for “umbrella” in Chinese has the connotation of separation. Therefore, giving an umbrella as a gift can imply a farewell or bring the omen of a crack in the relationship between the two individuals. Thus, it is best not to give umbrellas as gifts.
This information is for reference purposes only and based on traditional beliefs.