Many people are obsessed with asking feng shui masters to check the direction of their house, arrange good feng shui items, and check the auspicious time to leave without knowing that feng shui in speech is also very important. The words you speak are also feng shui for your family and yourself. Especially for those who do not know how to keep their mouths shut, it is easy to affect the feng shui of the family. Especially, do not openly discuss the following two things:
Private matters in the family
Every family has its own joys and sorrows. No family is perfect. Therefore, it is best to limit talking about private matters in your family. When you talk about your private matters to others, it means you are exposing your family to their judgment. Moreover, other members of the family may feel upset and uncomfortable with this.
When others hear your stories, they may add to them and spread them to others, giving them a reason to comment. This is an opportunity for others to interfere in your family, and when people know too much about your family, life will no longer be comfortable. You will be scrutinized, doubted… And it’s true that when someone knows too much about your family, feelings will fade, because no family is perfect, and people tend to remember the bad more than the good. When others know about the private matters in your family, you are vulnerable to gossip. While it may be fun at times, they may take things about your family that didn’t go well and attach negative implications to you, which will lead to a decrease in respect from others.
Therefore, there is nothing more foolish than taking family matters to others. At times, you may accidentally say things without thinking. Therefore, in order to keep your family happy and warm, it is best not to complain or talk about your family to outsiders.
Personal financial matters
Financial matters are extremely sensitive. When others know about your finances, they know your personal private information. If you willingly disclose your secrets, don’t blame others for being annoyed. When you expose financial information, people may borrow money from you, make judgments about your financial situation, or they may look down on you if they know you’re struggling financially. Therefore, financial information is valuable private information that should not be revealed.
In modern society, people have to spend money to obtain financial information about opponents or counterparts. Ordinary people try to find ways to find out about the economic situation of others to assess relationships, business cooperation, social connections… When you talk about financial information, if you are wealthy, someone may borrow money from you or spy on you, affecting your business, even making you feel uncomfortable, and affecting your relationships. If you don’t have money, people may look down on you, and it may ruin business relationships, making it difficult for you to succeed and your financial situation to deteriorate.
Revealing financial information does not stop at financial assets, but also includes showing off meals, items on social media, which is also considered revealing financial information. These things in feng shui are seen as not bringing benefits.
Therefore, if you want good feng shui, remember to keep your mouth shut, don’t talk unnecessarily, and don’t reveal unnecessary things.
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