Cunning children, fond of taking advantage
Some children seem very smart, when playing with friends, they are always the ones who know how to protect their own interests the most. They will be the ones who seem friendly, playing very happily with friends but when you look closely, they are actually taking advantage of everyone. They can eat other people’s food, play with other people’s toys but they themselves do not contribute at all. Or to avoid completing the game, they lie in every way like stomachache, blame others…
Parents laugh quietly, thinking that this clever way of playing can help their children avoid being bullied or taken advantage of by friends. However, such selfish behavior will seriously hinder the process of children integrating into society. Taking advantage of others is never a wise way to live, in fact, the ones who suffer the most are the children themselves. Those who like to take advantage in society, sooner or later will be alienated and rejected.
On the contrary, children who can complete a game sincerely and face difficulties, may seem foolish, but the most important thing is their flexibility and patience in learning, and the probability of success will be higher. The sense of responsibility and sincere attitude, knowing how to correct mistakes when making mistakes instead of blaming others, also helps them gain the goodwill of others.
Children who only know sweet talk but no action
In real life, there are always children like that, relying on their intelligence and eloquence to achieve something. These children often say nice things in front of their parents because they know exactly what they say will please their parents. When they go outside, these children also receive affection. However, parents need to realize that these children only know how to speak but postpone their actions or do not take any action to do what they say. It is a manifestation of false intelligence.
Children like that will find it difficult to succeed in life when they grow up. Their success is based solely on imagination because every time they take action, they appear lazy and unwilling to learn from the experiences of those around them. They are mostly ordinary people with no future.
Children who only care about trivial benefits
In 2019, an online shopping platform mistakenly priced oranges at 28 Chinese yuan (equivalent to 90,000 VND) for 4500 kg. After a blogger discovered it, he guided his fans to buy it like crazy. Tens of thousands of orders reached 7 million Chinese yuan (equivalent to over 2 billion VND), and the store could not deliver the goods. So they sent an apology letter asking everyone to “give them a way to survive”.
Fortunately, thanks to the efforts of many parties, the store has resumed business. The above blogger, even after apologizing, could not warm up the condemnation of netizens.
In 2017, a parent flew with a child, buying three tickets for four people, and the parent hid it so the child would not have a ticket to sneak into the airport. After boarding the plane, the flight attendant discovered that the child did not have a ticket and the plane had taken off on time for all passengers to disembark and go through security procedures again, resulting in a delay of 5 hours.
According to the feedback from the Aviation Administration, the parent misunderstood that children under 1.2m do not need to buy tickets and not intentionally evading ticket prices does not constitute a crime. Have you ever seen this scene on the subway? Parents take their young children on the subway, and while staff are not paying attention, they let the child pass through the turnstile to enter the platform together.
Children will form their own behavior in the future by observing the behavior of their parents. In other words, if parents often “take advantage” in front of their children and take pride in it, then children will regulate this behavior as their own rule of conduct. Therefore, parents should not underestimate, all your actions will affect the character and future of the child. Don’t let your child lose their life just because of a small, cheap gain.
Children are in a period of forming their thoughts and ethics, they do not have the ability to judge right from wrong, when the habit of taking advantage of this opportunity is imitated into the child’s habit, it will have a great impact on their behavior in the future.
Such “smart” behavior may save money on the surface, but it is an irreversible loss. Don’t cling to immediate trivial benefits, life can achieve greater benefits. Do not be constrained by small calculations in front of you, children will naturally see bigger stars and a bigger sky in the future.
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