These aren’t just astrological times, but rather favorable times in terms of biology and society, favorable times emotionally, so these babies will grow up in happiness and love as well as be less affected in the early years of their lives. Parents need to know that these times really affect their children’s lives:
The time when parents love and harmonize with each other
A baby born from love will be luckier than a baby born from parents’ conflicts. A baby’s birth is the result of love, created from the father’s sperm and the mother’s egg, and in the moment of love’s ecstasy, it will contain wonderful vibrations. On the other hand, babies born when parents are falling apart will sometimes become a “problem” that ties their marriage together. That’s why when babies are born with their parents loving and harmonizing with each other, the moment of conception is already a lucky miracle. On the other hand, babies born in the parents’ conflicts when the parents no longer love each other, are falling apart, can be just a child trying to save their parents’ marriage and sometimes the presence of the baby creates pressure for both the parents and the child.
Therefore, when the marriage is falling apart, don’t think about getting pregnant to hold on. Let your child be born in love and readiness, in the moment of love’s ecstasy. Make sure the baby is born in happiness. Children who grow up in happiness will have more complete love. Seeing parents loving each other makes children more trusting in life and their brains develop smarter. That’s why parents should not involve their children in dealing with their life’s problems.
When parents’ finances are strong and financial psychology is stable
Having a baby in the family means there is an additional money-spending machine, so expenses increase significantly. Therefore, parents need to be prepared to take good care of their child in the early years because it is an important stage for physical and intellectual development. Therefore, if the mother’s finances are not stable, it will be difficult and disadvantageous for the child, causing pressure on the parents, and even making the family stressed and break apart. When the couple’s life has many expenses, having a child requires even more spending. Even when giving birth, there are also many expenses, if you have the money, you can choose better and safer childbirth services for both the mother and the baby, and have more comprehensive screening tests. When the baby is sick, you can provide better services for the child, even just vaccines will be better.
Therefore, before giving birth, you need to be prepared. Moreover, you also need to prepare psychologically for finances, facing difficulties, to avoid complaining and blaming your children. When children hear their parents arguing over finances, or when children are blamed and burdened by their mother, they will grow up feeling insecure and unhappy.
When parents are in good health
Parents’ health affects the child when conceiving. The older parents are, the higher the risk of congenital diseases in their children. When parents are using drugs or stimulants, the child will be affected during pregnancy. When parents’ health is not good, it will be difficult to take good care of the child. When parents are sick, playing and raising the child will also exhaust you, and the child will have to live with your low energy. This is not conducive to the child’s development. Therefore, you need to prepare your health and the timing of childbirth so that both parents are healthy and still energetic. The age difference between parents and children can also be a hindrance in raising a child. Children are energetic and parents are already old and have less energy to play with the child, which will hinder the child’s development. When you give birth when you are too old, it sometimes makes the child feel insecure, especially when friends think that you are the child’s grandparents.
When there are grandparents or relatives to help
Giving birth to and raising children is the parents’ responsibility. But in reality, sometimes we need the help of grandparents or relatives to take care of the child when you are on a business trip. Sending the child to someone else will make you worry. A baby always needs someone by their side, so if there are grandparents, it will be less stressful for you and you will have more time to rest and be less stressed. Moreover, when the child is older, you can leave the child with grandparents with more peace of mind than hiring someone from outside. When the child is born, you are like a machine that never turns off, so there will be times when you are stressed and tired. Therefore, you need someone’s support. Support helps you reduce stress, so it will also make you happy and teach your child better.
The timing of giving birth is not only based on astrology, but also on which timing you are most ready for, and prepare the best conditions to welcome your child into the world. Psychological and financial aspects are indispensable when giving birth.
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