From Owner to Guest
Many women do not want to return home after getting married. In fact, there are many reasons that lead to this, and one of the most important reasons is that the way they are treated at home has changed. Before getting married, the girl is the little princess in her parents’ eyes. She is also the owner of this house, a member of the big family.
But after marriage, this treatment changes. At this point, parents will be very polite to their daughters. In other words, the treatment received at your own home is like that of a guest. The feeling of the girl at this time is not that of a homeowner but that of a distant guest. Many women do not want to return to their families because of this feeling.
Taking Care of Children Takes Time
When a woman gets married, she will have more things to do. Before getting married and starting a new family, girls are the little princesses of their parents, not having to do anything themselves. But after getting married, they have to do many things on their own and also help with household chores.
Especially for girls who have children because they have become mothers. They need to take care of their children carefully, take care of and worry about many things. Therefore, most of their time is devoted to their children and family. In this way, girls don’t have much time to go back to their parents’ home. Their attention is completely focused on their children and family, and they don’t have much energy to think about other things.
Not Wanting Parents to Worry Too Much
If we say that after a daughter gets married, she often runs back to her birth mother’s home. Many parents will be very worried, afraid that their daughter is not happy or being treated badly in her new home. For this reason, many girls hesitate to go back to their birthplace frequently. They are afraid that parents will worry about their living conditions.
Especially when they are being treated badly or encountering something unpleasant. So the girls do not want to go back to their birth mothers’ home at this time. They are afraid that parents will worry when they see them like this. Because they don’t want their parents to worry too much, causing unnecessary trouble, girls will also reduce the number of times they go back to their birth mothers’ home after getting married.