Therefore, if after turning off the lights and going to bed, the husband consistently shows the following 3 signs towards his wife for a long period of time, it can be confirmed that he no longer has any feelings for his wife!
1. No physical contact with the wife
When the heart belongs to someone, our bodies have their own language. We will want to be intimate with the person we love, especially in the privacy of the bedroom.
A loving husband will always want to hold his wife close, feel her warmth and scent when they both fall asleep. It’s not just about passionate intimacy, for that husband, being able to hold his wife while they sleep in their familiar room is a peaceful moment that erases fatigue.
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When he is tired of his wife, a man just wants to immerse himself in his own private space when he goes to bed. He will wrap himself in a separate blanket, turn his back to his wife, and get busy with his phone.
Whatever his wife says or asks, he ignores it. After a long day of work without any time to talk to each other, he still doesn’t want to spend any more time on his wife, showing that he no longer loves her.
2. Constantly finding excuses to sleep separately
It’s not uncommon for couples to get angry with each other and sleep separately, but it only lasts to a certain extent and there is a legitimate reason for it. When a husband always causes trouble with his wife to find an excuse to go to the office or work in a separate room, with very trivial reasons, it shows that he no longer wants to share a room with his wife.
Repeatedly repelling his wife in such a way can only mean one thing: sharing a bed with his wife has become a nightmare for him. Escaping from his wife is like being set free. It’s not just a matter of lost feelings, he is bored with the woman beside him.
When a man is passionately in love, it’s easy to notice. When he no longer loves, it’s not hard to see. If your husband shows the following signs in the bedroom, it’s time to take a look at your marriage!
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3. No caring actions towards the wife in the bedroom
When a husband loves and cares for his wife, he will always have small caring actions, and of course, the bedroom is no exception. A loving husband always remembers to tuck his wife in, adjust the air conditioner temperature to suit her warmth. He is not afraid to get up in the middle of the night to help his wife with whatever she needs.
Especially when his wife has health issues, such as her monthly cycle, having a cold, getting sick… the husband will always be by her side. Even if he is busy with work and has to work overtime, he always tries to come home as soon as possible, fearing that something might happen to his wife at night.
For a heartless, selfish man, his purpose when turning off the lights and going to bed is only to sleep, nothing more. He doesn’t care how the woman sharing the bed is doing.
There was a story of a woman talking about her marriage. Everything was going perfectly normal until the day she had intense stomach pain in the middle of the night and asked her husband to take her to the hospital. He didn’t even open his eyes, telling her to bear it until morning. That night, she went to the hospital alone, and the doctor told her that it would be dangerous if she had come late.
When she got back in the morning, she decided to file for divorce to the surprise of everyone. Everyone said that divorcing just because her husband didn’t take her to the hospital in the middle of the night was ridiculous. But only she knew that when difficulties and hardships cannot be together, what does she need him for in beautiful, wealthy, and healthy times?
