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“A Daughter’s Plea: The Heartbreaking Tale of a Child’s Compassion”

15 September, 2024

As a mother, I am proud to have taught my daughter about the value of giving and receiving from a young age. With the recent news of storms and floods in the North, my daughter has been keenly following the updates, and despite her young age, she has been deeply moved by the situation.

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Today, on my way to pick her up, she excitedly shared with me about her school’s initiative to raise funds for those affected by the storms. She wanted to participate and promised to help me with chores at home if I could contribute. I was touched by her empathy and maturity, and of course, I supported her noble cause.

My daughter was so thrilled to be able to help that she proudly shared the news with everyone she met. While walking home with her classmate and neighbor, she continued to talk about it, only to find her friend in tears. When I inquired, I learned that her friend’s mother had not allowed her to contribute.

With a saddened expression, her friend said:

– My family is very poor.

I was taken aback by her words, as everyone in our apartment building knew that her parents were quite wealthy.

– Who told you that your family is poor? – I asked.

– My mother. She said we don’t have enough money to spare. I begged her all evening, but she still didn’t agree. When I told her that all my classmates were donating, she became angry and said, “Charity is voluntary, not an obligation.”

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Hearing this, I felt a mix of emotions. While I knew it wasn’t my place to interfere in another family’s matters, I couldn’t help but feel a deep sense of sadness. I wondered why some parents would use phrases like “we don’t have money” or “we are poor” when raising their children. Do they realize the potential harm they are causing in their children’s education? I believe my neighbor will one day regret this approach.

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“We are poor” is a familiar phrase used by many parents when raising their children. Some believe that by citing financial difficulties and a lack of money to fulfill their children’s demands, they are teaching them about the value of hard work and the reality of life’s struggles. However, this approach can have negative consequences, even “destroying” a child’s self-esteem and outlook on life.

– It can create a sense of self-doubt and timidity in children, leading to a lack of confidence and a belief that they are not worthy of nice things due to their financial situation.

– Children may develop a passive mindset, thinking that if they don’t have money, they shouldn’t even try to pursue their desires. This can hinder their motivation and ambition.

– By constantly hearing that their family lacks money, children may develop a sense of irresponsibility, believing that financial constraints are a valid excuse for not taking action or fulfilling responsibilities.

While it is normal for children to make demands, parents should strive to provide for their children and teach them that material possessions are not the only source of happiness. It’s important to instill a sense of drive and determination in children, showing them that they need to work hard and strive for their goals.