The relationship between siblings is a special and precious bond. Despite being blood-related, there are secrets that need to be kept between siblings.
Even though there may be a strong bond since childhood, as adults with their own families, each person has their own lives. Sometimes, keeping certain things secret is beneficial for both parties.
While many people believe that siblings should share everything, in reality, communication needs to have an element of secrecy. Maintaining a suitable distance between siblings helps make the relationship more special. Constantly revealing everything can create vulnerability and potentially harm each other.
Therefore, the relationship between siblings should involve keeping secrets and understanding each other. This demonstrates their high emotional intelligence (EQ).
Keep your income secret
In reality, not many people genuinely wish for you to have a good life. Therefore, sometimes, you should keep your income a secret when in front of others. This not only makes them uninterested in you but it can also make them resentful and envious.
In society, jealousy and envy are common, and many people do not want you to surpass them. Therefore, when communicating with others, keep silent about your income and progress; that is the most important thing.
Limit sharing difficulties within the family
When each person has their own family, many things are no longer shared. In such cases, limit sharing detailed information about your family life with others, as this can cause conflicts and affect relationships.
People need to learn how to respect each other. Even if you have a lot of pain inside, learn to keep it to yourself, as others may not care or understand.
Don’t complain about each other
In the world, no one is perfect, including siblings. If you constantly express dissatisfaction with each other, the relationship between the two will soon become tense and distant.
If you have any opinions about your siblings, keep them to yourself. If you constantly criticize the other person from your perspective, they will not pay attention and may develop prejudices against you.
We want to maintain a family relationship, but sometimes we have to keep a distance. In fact, family relationships are very fragile, and without knowing how to maintain them, conflicts will become more serious.
Genuine happiness does not depend on the care of others. When you care less, life becomes easier and more natural. In reality, getting along with everyone is actually an art. Each person has their own rhythm in life, and communication between them is not simple.
As you mature, you must have your own rules. Crossing boundaries can make life chaotic, as everyone has their own unique way of living.
In real life, emotional intelligence plays an important role. Without it, many problems can easily arise.
Sometimes, the truth is not always the best choice for maintaining a relationship. Sometimes, lying can keep the relationship better.
Every family has its own secrets. Some secrets help with harmony, while others can cause conflicts.
In reality, there are ways to get along. When you have high emotional intelligence, the environment around you becomes more comfortable.