According to ancient beliefs, our bodies contain a soul, which is also the source of suffering and joy. The destiny of each person is different due to the distinction present in this physical body. The proverb “Observe the eyes in youth, and the mouth in middle age” fundamentally reveals the secrets of the other person. Is this true?
Observe the eyes in youth
There is a proverb: “At three, one can see the outline; at seven, one can see the old age”, meaning that even when a child is very young, one can roughly see the future of a child. But the point on the body to look at is the child’s eyes.
According to Buddhist beliefs, out of the six sense organs: ear, eye, nose, tongue, body, and mind, human beings mostly use their eyes. Therefore, the eyes often cause the most sins. From ancient times to the present, there have been many differences in the eyes, especially since nowadays, the eyes are contaminated with pollutants, making it difficult to cultivate. This is the reason for the saying “the eyes are the window to the soul”, which means that what you see and feel is displayed through the eyes.
We can look at the children around us, some have bright, intelligent eyes, while others have dull, sluggish eyes. Just by looking at this feature, you can recognize the future of the child. Because a child with agile eyes must have a cheerful personality and an intelligent mind, while a child with dull, slow eyes usually has slow thinking and reactions.
Around the age of 20, a person’s spirit and personality are basically complete, and at this time, the eyes can reflect the most genuine aspects of a person, which is why people say “look at the eyes when you are young” because the eyes are often a reflection of a person’s life.
Observe the mouth in middle age
The ancients said: “For truth and falsehood, look at the face; for success or failure, look at the mouth.” Throughout history, countless people have become famous because they know how to talk, and countless people have failed because they cannot control their mouths.
Eating can involve many things, but speaking cannot be chaotic. If you eat incorrectly, at most, you will only harm yourself, but if you speak incorrectly, it is very possible that you will hurt others and cause trouble later on. This is called trouble coming out of the mouth. The ancients have a saying: “Three years to learn to speak, but a lifetime to learn to be silent.”
When people reach middle age, they must have the ability to control their mouths. The first thing is to eat, and eating is related to physical health. Weight gain in middle age is a common law. Almost everyone who reaches this age will gain weight significantly. Why do people get fat at this age? Most of the reason is that they cannot control their mouths. Obesity is caused by eating. This is a sign that is not good for your body and health.
The second thing is to manage your mouth well when speaking, which does not mean being silent, but knowing what to say and what not to say, speaking must be appropriate to the situation and circumstances. When you reach middle age, you can no longer speak as comfortably as when you were young. This is called the maturity of middle age.
It is for this reason that the ancients coined the phrase “Observe the eyes in youth, and the mouth in middle age.” Indeed, the art of observing people of our ancestors was profound and brilliant.