The attribute of daughters belongs to Yin in the differentiation of yin and yang (because everything in the body is round and floating). Therefore, if a daughter is born on the full moon day, which is the most negative air day and the extreme yin, then everything will be negative, too much yin energy will make it difficult to nurture and be stubborn or very individualistic.
“Celebrating the 1st, girl on the full moon/If you raise, may you still hold grudges in your heart”, what does this mean?
Celebrating the 1st girl on the full moon, is it good or bad?
This saying implies that children born on these two days in the month are difficult to raise and teach, with stubborn personalities, fortunes, and lives that have many ups and downs. According to feng shui aspects of the five elements, children born on the first day of the lunar month, especially in the morning, have positive elemental fortune in the month.
For example, those who are born in the Fire element, the Fire energy is good in the months of 4, 5, 6, the Year and Hour of birth are also good for destiny, but not good for social balance development.
The first day is the beginning of the month, with very positive yang energy, implying that the Sun shines brightest, and boys naturally belong to the yang, so those born on this day have a very positive yang personality. As for the full moon day, the 15th day of the lunar month has very thin yin energy due to the Moon being the most round, and girls belong to the yin, so those born on this day have a very thin yin personality. In terms of feng shui, balancing yin and yang is always a prerequisite for bringing good luck. Therefore, whether it is yin or yang, when it is at a very thin level, it is abnormal and not ideal for human development.
Therefore, children born on these two days will have special biological changes different from others, creating strong temperaments, difficult to teach and nurture, and many ups and downs in life.
The way to resolve the birth of a child on the full moon day, the first day (lunar calendar) is as follows:
Children born on the full moon day, the first day, often tend to be difficult to discipline, difficult to raise, and their health is also unstable. Specifically, the issues that cause many parents to worry when giving birth at this time are:
– The child shows hyperactivity, lack of concentration;
– The child is prone to illness, weak immunity;
– The child cries and jerks during the night;
– The child cries relentlessly when encountering strangers or going out to play far away;
– The child grows slowly, has difficulty gaining weight…
However, these things will go away when the child turns 13. Families often use the form of donating to the pagoda to maintain their destiny. However, parents should pay attention, love, and care for their children, and there is no need to worry too much.
For a long time, people have mistakenly assumed that having a son on the first day of the lunar month and a daughter on the full moon day (15th lunar month) are difficult to raise and have different personalities. However, from a scientific perspective, whether a child is easy to raise, their personality depends on many factors, including living environment and upbringing by parents.
According to some experts, we should not equate the difficulty of raising boys born on the first day and girls born on the full moon day.
Whether in the past or today, for those who become parents, giving birth to a child just needs “a round mother and a square child” to be an endless happiness. The future of the children depends more on the upbringing of parents.
Children are like crude gems, they need to be polished with many hearts to shine. Many people spoil their children too much because they love them, and that’s the main reason why children are spoiled and difficult to teach.
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