Both Newton and Einstein were not obedient children. In business, Bill Gates, Jobs, and Zuckerberg were also not well-behaved boys when they were young.
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Well-behaved children have low resistance
According to Brainpop, psychologists believe that well-behaved children have too low a level of resistance to face difficulties and they will not be able to integrate into society.
A child who knows how to deal with people and has a fast-working brain, but if their resistance level is too low and they cannot withstand failures, then this child will hit a wall everywhere and will not be able to fully utilize their EQ and IQ.
In the process of education, we always emphasize EQ and IQ but we forget about the resistance level. The so-called disadvantageous index refers to how people react to failures and difficulties.
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Why do well-behaved children have low resistance?
What is a well-behaved child? They do what their parents tell them to do and they do not know how to express opinions or ask questions if doing so is right or wrong.
Because since childhood, they have always lived in a “greenhouse”, so they always follow their parents’ words, and never face the storms of life alone.
Obviously, well-behaved children lack fighting capacity, independent perspective, self-reliance, perseverance, and firm capability. They also lack a high resistance level to resist pressure.
Because well-behaved children completely follow others’ opinions, every move they make is considered based on others’ opinions, so they lack their own opinion, lose their ideas and creative abilities.
As parents, we rarely develop the child’s ability to ask questions. The ability to ask questions is for the child to express their own opinions and perspectives while encouraging them to innovate.
Although becoming a well-behaved child is not a bad thing, we should allow children to have their own ideas and pursue their own goals.
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