1. Regularly Demanding Living Expenses: The Need for Moderate Refusal to Foster Independence
In the face of children’s frequent financial demands, parental love should not become an unconditional money-making machine.
Providing moderate financial support is necessary, but more importantly, it’s crucial to seize this opportunity to cultivate children’s sense of independence and responsibility.
Overindulging their material needs will only trap them in a quagmire of dependency. Therefore, when your child asks for help due to “lack of money,” boldly refuse and guide them on self-management and planning, letting independence become the foundation of their adulthood.
2. Not Indulging Bad Habits and Firmly Adhering to Principles
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Apart from material needs, children may also seek parental indulgence due to bad habits. In such cases, parents must stand firm on their principles and clearly refuse.
Failing to do so would be irresponsible toward their future. It gives them the wrong impression that their wrongful behavior can be unconditionally forgiven and protected, eroding their motivation and courage to correct themselves. So, when your child tries to shirk responsibility by acting spoiled or crying, firmly refuse and guide them to face their mistakes and actively seek improvement.
In conclusion, as parents, while caring for your children, you must also learn to timely refuse their unreasonable demands. Only then can we help them grow into independent, confident, and responsible individuals instead of becoming our “enemies” in the future.
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