Parents are the mirror of their children. If the parents’ heart is not good, the children will not be good. So it’s not just the mother, but also the father who needs to nurture themselves well.
So what does your mother’s cultivation bring to her children? Specifically, the following:
Mother changes her preferences for her children
Since having children, all of the mother’s activities have changed to help her children be healthy. The mother has devoted all her attention to help her children grow day by day.
The mother didn’t like classical music, but when she had children, she changed that perception. The daily cup of coffee that the mother used to enjoy, but now she doesn’t drink it because it’s harmful to the child.
There are many other nameless things that have truly changed the mother’s life. It is true that the mother has given up many of her own desires. Now, when doing things, the mother no longer only thinks of herself. In fact, that is a process of self-cultivation.
Mother is willing to change her preferences for her children. (Illustrative photo)
Mother nurtures a compassionate heart for her children
Everyone knows that a mother needs to be happy for the sake of the fetus, but superficial happiness is ineffective, and the deep compassion in a mother’s soul is the best for the child. Why can the mother do it even though it is difficult? Because the child is the source of strength for the mother to overcome the limits of her own daily practice.
The loving heart and goodness of the mother have quietly soaked into the child’s soul, nurturing a baby with noble qualities from within.
Perhaps the process of pregnancy is just the starting point. From birth to growing up, children are influenced by society with countless good and bad things. Therefore, the child needs to know how many mothers continually nurture themselves to be by their side and provide them with a solid foundation.
The mother’s behavior is a role model for the child
There is a true story about a mother who seriously nurtures herself every day and the result is extremely touching. The story goes that the 4-year-old child, the son of that mother, once climbed onto a chair to reach for an apple on the table but fell to the ground and caused a plate of rice to spill.
Typically, mothers would be angry and scold the child. However, in this situation, the mother quietly helped the child up and cleaned up the rice scattered on the ground. Not only did the mother not feel angry, but she also felt that it was her fault for not cleaning the table immediately after eating. It seems simple, but it is actually the result of continuous self-cultivation over a long period of time.
One day after the incident, the boy spilled half a bowl of soup while eating. The mother immediately said without hesitation, “It’s okay. Are you still okay?”. Then she took a tissue to clean the spilled soup and kindly said to her child, “Next time, you need to be more careful”.
The mother’s goodness radiated a warm light that made the atmosphere comfortable and happy for the whole family. As for the child, from that moment on, he rarely spills anything.
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