Below are the things that parents should do with their children when they argue back:
1. Parents are the best role models
As parents, set an example for your child by demonstrating positive interaction, respect, and cooperation with others. Through your words and actions, convey appropriate communication and interaction skills to your child.
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2. Set clear rules and boundaries
Ensure that there are clear rules and boundaries in the family, while explaining why those rules are important for the child.
Let the child understand that arguing back is an unacceptable behavior and there will be consequences. Adhere to the rules and take appropriate corrective actions when the child argues back.
3. Foster good communication and listening habits
Encourage the child to express their opinions, perspectives, and let them know that their voice is valued. Give the child ample time to express their thoughts and practice active listening so that they do not feel compelled to argue back to attract attention.
4. Teach respect and etiquette
Teach the child how to express themselves with respect and politeness. Encourage the child to use appropriate language and tone to convey ideas and remind them of the importance of understanding the perspectives of others.
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5. Reward positive behavior
Provide positive feedback and rewards when the child expresses their viewpoints and ideas in appropriate ways. This will encourage the child to communicate with others in a more positive manner.
6. Promote conflict resolution skills
Teach the child to use appropriate ways to resolve conflicts and disagreements. Encourage the child to seek compromise and come up with constructive solutions rather than engaging in arguments or defiance by arguing back.
It is important to be patient and understanding, providing appropriate guidance and support to your child in developing good behavioral habits.
Regardless of the strategy, the important thing is to develop good communication skills and understanding with your children while providing them with positive guidance and support. Additionally, parents themselves need to remain calm and patient in order to demonstrate rational and respectful behavior.