It is said that by the age of 3, we can determine the future personality of a child, and by the age of 7, we can predict their future destiny. This means that a child’s future personality is directly influenced by their early childhood. Their character and temperament are evident from a young age. Children who grow up to be successful often have exceptional intellectual abilities from a young age, which they acquire through education and are influenced by the following four sayings:
1. It’s okay
Children who are carefree and tolerant, and who know how to forgive others when they make mistakes, or say “Thank you” when receiving something, reflect the education they have received. Speaking such words helps children develop better relationships and be more loved. Children who like to say “It’s okay” are generally emotionally stable, which helps them develop easily in life. Emotional stability is very important. When attacked by the outside world, children can quickly adjust their emotions and not be affected by negative energies, and they have the courage to accept challenges. This helps children become resilient and determined in life. Children who know how to say such words are usually tolerant, and they face difficulties with ease and calmness.

2. I will take responsibility for this
Avoiding responsibility is a characteristic of a bad person. Children who are willing to take responsibility will find solutions to problems and will listen and learn. Not being afraid of failure when taking responsibility is a way for children to have confidence in their problem-solving abilities.
Children like these are responsible, so if you assign them a task, you don’t need to worry. They may fail, but they will not insist on their own point of view. Instead, they will admit their mistakes in order to improve.
3. Don’t just talk, take action
In life, actions speak louder than words. So children who have a mindset of proving themselves through actions are undoubtedly strong individuals. Empty words do not solve problems. Over time, children will develop the habit of speaking without doing. Words may temporarily please others, but they cannot affirm their abilities in the long run. Children who clearly understand their goals and results will know how to succeed, how to make others believe in them, and how to create value. They will not use sweet words, but rather rely on their capabilities and results to prove themselves.

The achievements of human beings are created through actions. With a plan in mind, they can achieve their goals, and children who focus on practice will be better than those who are good at bragging. Actions help people grow and develop. In the process, we will encounter various problems, which are valuable experiences. Children who are not afraid to act will learn to carefully plan their actions, set appropriate goals, manage time, and take responsibility.
4. You understand how I feel
Nowadays, emotional intelligence is highly valued, so children with emotional intelligence like this will have a bright future. They will be warm and gain trust from others. In their relationships, they will look at the circumstances of others, put themselves in their shoes to empathize and analyze the situation. They will ask if the other person needs help, accept and respect their emotions instead of blaming or criticizing. One way for children to show care for others is to create opportunities for them to communicate directly with everyone. Parents can establish certain rules in the family, such as requiring eye contact during conversations instead of only focusing on cell phones, and using emoticons.
Therefore, in the process of nurturing and educating children, you should encourage and create an environment for them to practice these four qualities.