The Lunar New Year is a special time for families to come together, visit grandparents, share meals, and catch up after a year of hard work. It’s not uncommon for parents to find themselves in an awkward situation due to their children’s lack of manners and politeness. Teaching your children these 5 simple lessons can be incredibly beneficial.
1 Teach Your Child About Their Roots
The Lunar New Year is a great opportunity for parents to educate their children about traditional customs and practices, helping them understand and appreciate their cultural heritage. Engage your children in activities such as making and decorating , writing greeting cards, and preparing traditional foods.
Involving your children in these preparations alongside grandparents and parents will foster a deeper understanding and interest in Lunar New Year traditions. It will also nurture a sense of compassion and empathy in your children.
Additionally, participating in these activities will enhance their social and communication skills and encourage teamwork.
Teach Your Child About Their Roots
2 Teach Your Child to Greet and Wish Everyone Well
The Lunar New Year is a time for people to come together and exchange greetings and well-wishes, expressing love, respect, and hopes for a prosperous and healthy new year. Teaching your children to greet and wish others well is an essential part of preserving Vietnamese cultural traditions and values.
Practice and encourage your children to use meaningful and heartfelt greetings and wishes for their grandparents, elders, and loved ones ahead of the Lunar New Year.
Teach Your Child to Greet and Wish Everyone Well
Related: Check out these to make your greetings even more special!
3 Teach Your Child to Receive Lucky Money Respectfully
Receiving lucky money is an exciting part of the Lunar New Year for children. However, it’s important to teach them the significance of lucky money and the proper way to receive it.
Instruct your children to be polite and grateful when receiving lucky money, with a smile, a gentle bow, and a heartfelt thank you. If your child forgets to say thank you, gently remind them to maintain good manners.
Teach Your Child to Receive Lucky Money Respectfully
Some children may excitedly open and show off their lucky money, even commenting on the amount. This can cause embarrassment for both the giver and the parents. Therefore, explain to your children the symbolic meaning of lucky money and the importance of not commenting on the amount. Teach them to refrain from opening the envelope immediately and always express gratitude.
4 Teach Your Child Proper Table Manners for the Lunar New Year
Meals with family and friends are an integral part of the Lunar New Year celebrations. While adults may continue socializing over drinks after a hearty meal, young children often become restless and disruptive.
In such situations, it’s a good idea to bring along a few toys or activities to keep your child entertained and prevent disruptive behavior.
Teach Your Child Proper Table Manners for the Lunar New Year
5 Explain the Significance of Traditional Lunar New Year Dishes
Traditional dishes like , , , , and are an essential part of the Lunar New Year. Take this opportunity to teach your children about the meaning and symbolism behind these delicious treats.
Explain to your children that these dishes represent hopes for a prosperous and peaceful new year. Share stories and legends associated with these foods, enriching their understanding and appreciation of these traditions.
Explain the Significance of Traditional Lunar New Year Dishes
These 5 simple lessons will ensure your children understand the importance of good manners, respect, and the rich cultural heritage of the Lunar New Year. We hope you found this guide useful!
Source: Vietnamese Women’s Newspaper
2. Respect: Teach children to respect their elders and those around them. This can be demonstrated through simple actions like greeting grandparents, offering to help with chores, or showing table manners during family gatherings.
3. Saving and Spending: The practice of receiving lucky money (‘li xi’) can be used to teach children about financial responsibility. Parents can guide them on how to save a portion of their lucky money and spend the rest wisely.
4. Family Values: Emphasize the importance of family and spending quality time together. Involve children in preparing traditional dishes, setting up decorations, or participating in family rituals to create a sense of belonging and unity.
5. Goal Setting: The Lunar New Year represents a fresh start. Help children set realistic goals or New Year’s resolutions, such as improving a skill, picking up a new hobby, or adopting healthier habits. This teaches them about planning and working towards their aspirations.