Expressing the Potential of Your Child
Parents with capabilities will never show off how smart or promising their children are in front of others. Because they know very well that their children are not the smartest, nor the most promising, so there is no need to boast.
Parents with capabilities will teach their children to be humble, not to show off their children in front of others, not to let others see them as a joke. They will also teach children to study hard and not to be lazy, arrogant, or complacent.
Everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses, what we need to do is to maximize our strengths and avoid our weaknesses. Do not let the bragging of your child’s strengths make them overly proud, or let their strengths cover up their own weaknesses.
Therefore, the more capable a parent is, the less they will show off how well their children are in front of others.
Showcasing Your Child’s Good Traits
Many people say that parents are the first and best teachers for their children. Therefore, the qualities and self-cultivation of parents directly influence the future of their children.
Parents with capabilities can not only bring positive energy to their children, but also instill them with excellent qualities. On the other hand, parents without courage or capabilities love to show off their children in front of others.
Showing off a child’s grades will create unhealthy comparison and competition. It is possible that boasting about your child will become bait for ridicule and envy among classmates, and as a result, our children may be bullied, ostracized, and suffer other mental traumas.
If parents always like to brag about their child’s achievements to others, they will only receive disdain and jealousy, not admiration. Therefore, such actions are not wise.
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