1. Family Affection
For a child, the closeness and love of their parents and close family members are always the warmest emotions and will become the most beautiful memories of their childhood.
A family psychologist once interviewed many teenagers aged 15-20 and asked them what their deepest impressions of their parents were.
One interviewee excitedly replied: “When I was 5 years old, I was sitting on the steps with my younger brother after school, waiting for our mother to pick us up. As soon as she entered the gate, she spread her arms wide from afar, smiling and waiting for us. That was one of the happiest moments of my life!”
But another interviewee said coldly: “My parents are always on their phones and don’t pay attention to me at all.”
Can you imagine how the different experiences with their parents will affect their lives?
Therefore, parents! When you have time with your children, don’t hesitate to put down the little things and create beautiful memories with them. Don’t leave regrets for either side.
If you want your children to understand your hardships and love their family, then the closeness of their parents is the only way.
The closeness of parents when their children are young has a direct impact on the children’s future. (Illustrative image)
2. Getting Close to Nature
Many parents worry about their children getting hurt and always keep them indoors, never thinking that nature is also the best educational environment.
That’s why psychologist Li Tzu-huan once said: “Taking 100 kindergarten lessons is not as good as taking your child to be close to nature.”
Nature is a natural playground for young children. It can not only broaden their horizons but also cultivate their curiosity, and generate compassion for the life of plants and animals.
In addition, being close to nature also helps children achieve a better learning state. If you pay attention, you will find that children who hate studying may have played very little when they were young.
Love Reading
Reading is an excellent habit that increases knowledge and nourishes the soul. Therefore, to cultivate the habit of reading in children.
Parents must provide their children with the best reading space, take them to bookstores and libraries often, and help them fall in love with reading. Parents themselves should also set an example for their children by practicing reading habits themselves.
If a child can find a quiet land of the soul in literature, then it can be considered a spiritual wealth that few people have.
4. Understanding History
Don’t be afraid to take your child to visit museums so they can experience the historical atmosphere there.
Seeing old artifacts and utensils from different eras that are preserved while the world is constantly changing will make children feel the fascination of history.
This will not only help your child’s learning but also enrich their life experiences.
5. Enduring Hardships
Famous psychologist Maslow once said: “Setbacks for children are not necessarily bad things. The key lies in their attitude toward setbacks.”
You must know that no parent can follow their child their entire life, nor can they take care of their child their entire life.
Therefore, if you are reluctant to let your child suffer today, the knowledge and experience they gain will be very little, and their ability to endure hardships will be even weaker in the future.
